Say No To Excuse
It is not very difficult to find an excuse. Anybody who tries can always find a valid excuse for not completing the assigned task. At most times, it does not even hurt and the judge does not seek any further explanation.
Excuses are part of human heritage and have continued both as tradition and as fashion. The rich and the poor; the weak and the powerful; the dictator and the peacemaker; and the doctor and the patient are all martyrs of excuses. People have got so used to excuses that they have benchmarked their expectations after discounting the initial excuses.
However, it needs to be asked who gains when precious time is spent in creating innovative excuses? The answer is nobody. The horrible truth, on the other hand, is that excuses snatch from us the opportunity to become a better human being.
Excuses begin by shirking work and end in fearing that even if tried the work shall not be done. The greater one gets used to making excuses, the more impotent he becomes to change. Gradual desperation builds in the system and this with time enflames the self-pitying spirit. Soon the excuse-maker feels despondent, miserable and worn out. The relations also start getting impacted. People who do not want to waste time shirk from continuing relations with Mr. Perennial Excuse.
The worst phase in a habitual excuse-maker's life occurs when excuses have become established in the physche. The person becomes afraid of being exposed. He turns a perennial defensive-crib. The result is that people lose whatsoever interest that they had in him. Mr. Perennial Excuse is now a loner -- a certified accredited loner.
Check if you are also Mr. Perennial Excuse. Is it not an unnecessary fight to be unnatural? Why are you running away from life? Life is not an excuse. It is the wagon of celebration. Success and failures are part of it. Be frank and admit the truth. The day you do so excuses will be a dead phenomenon.
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