Turning Failures Into Victory

It is absolutely important to relish failures not because they make us feel like assholes but because of the opportunity to understand the essential contradictions of our belief-system. If we introspect, we shall find a difference between what we want badly and what we actually require to experience happiness.

The difference though small and sublime is important to enjoy life.
Failures provide a fresh perspective to what we chase. As we spend time, energy and hope to accomplish our top-most immediate goals, we realize the tribulations and frustrations attached to our quest. These frustrations redefine our viewpoint about life. If we were to achieve things easily, we would have underestimated their worth and, as a consequence, overestimated our potential. However, when we fail, the mysticism that surrounds us clears. The horror strikes clear on our face. We are forced to question where we are, what do we do and whether or not we are worth it. The cost of failure or the long-drawn process to achieve what we want provides us an opportunity to redefine our goals and aspirations. Either the desire to achieve fades away or it intesifies to become the reason-de-etre of our life.

Yes failures despite their immediate hurt-value help. Like a scavenger they clean the dead part of our system and allow us to recharge for the hilt. To do so what we need is to understand failure in the right perspective and using it as an opportunity to correct where we head. Are you game?